So here we are once more on the sofa in Costa. This is a step up on yesterday as I have stayed out of the house but it is not exactly lovely.
I am really very typically depressed today. dissociated and anhedonic to an extreme. I know I am reporting this to you reasonably well but life as a scientist allows that. I once spent 9 hrs observing droplet formation mismatches with a dislocated shoulder.
My life is such a fearful mess I cannot begin to sort it out. So I am trying to apply for jobs.
I am not well enough to do them to be honest but that seems like the only positive way I can do anything. I can at least try before giving up.
I still struggle with wanting to live. I do not see a reason. there is a lot of effort involved and absolutely no pleasure or motivation. No why.
So, you know, fuck it.
Same with social interactions. Sex I understand, and even I get pleasure from that. But people associate for other reasons, allegedly. I have spent a long time trying to work that one out.
I am locked into a cycle of doing things because I am doing them.
My GI tract is painful. I stopped Mirtazapine because the munchies it triggerred made me eat till I hurt. I may have stopped too late. real discomfort from stomach. guarding and tenderness too. It hasnt worsened though so it probably isnt a perforation. but really not pleasant.
ah well, what the hell.
Mrsinky said last night she missed the old me. So do I. I mean he was fucking miserable but less miserable than this.
Hope today is better. I suppose the 'why' in your situation (to me) looks like Foal. Without you her life will be blighted forever. So for that, and many other reasons, I hope you find a way to carry on.
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Hope your diamond regains its lustre.
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